What’s An Orgasm, Anyway?
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What’s An Orgasm, Anyway?

What is an orgasm, exactly?

If I want to be pedantic, I can drop the dictionary definition here, tell you a bunch of stuff about how it's a full-body wave of muscle spasms brought on by continuous genital stimulation and that it releases a lot of good feeling brain juice.

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Eat the Moon, Then Give it Back
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Eat the Moon, Then Give it Back

Content Warnings: Discussion of navigating potentially unhealthy desires, insecurity, possessiveness, BDSM and Kink,

Sometimes, there's a little black hole where my heart should be. It sucks in everything, every scrap of attention, affection, and care others pour into me, yet still it is hungry.

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Finding A Path to Masculinity

In the past say, year or so, I've been seeing pushback against folks doing the hyperbole thing of "Men are Trash/Men are Bastards," making arguments that this is deeply harmful to men (and mascs) who are trying their best not to fall into spaces of toxic masculinity.

Which, yes, and---

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